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ALWAYS REMEMBER
IF YOU SPEND YOUR PRECIOUS TIME CHASING BUTTERFLIES, THEY'LL FLY AWAY, AND YOU WILL BE EMPTY HANDED, WITH ALL YOUR TIME WASTED ALL THAT CHASING WOULD BE A TOTAL WASTE.
BUT IF YOU SPEND YOUR TIME MAKING A BEAUTIFUL GARDEN, THEN THE BUTTERFLIES WILL COME TO YOU, WHILE YOU SIT AND ENJOY.
AND EVEN IF THEY DONT COME, YOU STILL HAVE AN ENTIRE GARDEN TO YOURSELF.
DATING CONFIDENCE
SLEEP WELL. HAVE WELL RESTED EYES.
If you have tired eyes, they will look weird, puffy, might water, will have weaker focus, and as a result YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO MAKE CONFIDENT EYE CONTACT.
POINT OUT WHAT ALL FACTORS MAKE U FEAR SOMETHING. ALL THOSE FACTORS ARE THE FILTERS TO FILTER OUT THE STRONGEST CANDIDATE. EVERY FILTER YOU PASS FROM GIVES YOU MORE AND MORE CONFIDENCE AND BOOSTS YOUR SELF IMAGE.
SAY FOR EXAMPLE A MAN IS MORE FEARFUL OF TALKING TO A WOMAN AND INITIATING A CONVERSATION THAN A WOMAN INITIATING A CONVERSATION WITH A MAN. BECAUSE A MAN FEARS BEING FALSELY ACCUSED, FEARS A LOUD AND HARSH REACTION BY A WOMAN. FEARS THE CONSEQUENCES.
BUT A MAN ONLY FEARS WHAT HE DOESNT UNDERSTAND OR ISNT CAPABLE OF HANDLING THE CONSEQUENCES.
SO IF A MAN CONFIDENTLY APPROACHES A WOMAN REGARDLESS OF THESE UNDERLYING FEARS, HE WILL GET A CONFIDENCE BOOST FROM KNOWING THAT HE OVERCAME HIS FEARS AND DID SOMETHING REGARDLESS. AND THE WOMAN WOULD FEEL AUTOMATICALLY THAT THE MAN IS CAPABLE OF HANDLING SHIT AND CAN FACE THE CONSEQUENCES, HE PASSES THROUGH THE FILTER.
YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO SPEAK WHAT YOU WANT. IF YOU HESITATE YOUR'RE JAILING YOURSELF AND TAKING AWAY THE FREEDOM AND LIBERTY AWAY FROM YOURSELF. IF YOU WANNA MAKE A COMPLIMENT TO SOMEONE, SAY IT. YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON STOPPING YOURSELF. FREE YOURSELF.
GETTING OVER PEOPLE
Even the most prettiest faces will fade away with time. Even the hottest tightest bodies will become ugly wrinkly and weak. IT IS NOT GOING TO LAST. DONT BOW DOWN TO IT. IT IS JUST A PHASE OF EXCELLENCE THEY ARE IN. LONG TERM AN INVESTMENT DONE BASED ON LOOKS IS ONLY GOING TO DEPRECIATE.
A girl can be a liability, hard to get rid of when it gets boring or non-beneficial. Once you lose interest, you'll get sick of her, it'll be like a disease you wanna get rid of.
Even the most out of league top notch hot and pretty chicks, and even the independent, self-sufficient, Fem Dom, queen personality type chicks would beg you to stay, or keep coming back to you again and again, they will be bothered, frustrated, and confused but all the more THEY WILL BE HELPLESS.
This happens a lot due to the impact you have on them and the value you created in their eyes and lives. But also this can be achieved when they have made you public, like they have openly and publicly accepted the relationship.
For example they told their besties and friends about you. Or you both had a common friend circle and all know about you two, or the whole class knows about you. This makes a huge huge impact on the girl's mind. She never wants to be publicly humiliated or feel ashamed. Girls never want to feel answerable to the public, when people ask them "what happened to you two?" or "how did things end?" etc. they feel very pressured.
If you were a part of their social media and have pictures and videos with them, that too creates an impact and lasting impression. Basically you become a permanent tattoo, or if it wasn't a good end then you become an ever lasting scar.
They would constantly constantly try to make things write. How long they take to give up can depend on many factors. Even once they give up, they will have a small period of time when you can very easily and smoothly patch things up.
After that they might become stone cold hearted, lose value for you, their emotions might fade away, their inner self dependent self sufficient queen might come out again, or they might find a guy that can take better care of them, or if not better, can at least take care of them.
MISC
His whole village salutes me.
He walks all over the city but his anger cools down in front of me.
His eyes hit the heart straight and he pays attention to everything I say.
No one else can praise him only i can appreciate him
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Choudhary / Sahab / Haye Mera Balam
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DOMINANCE-SUBMISSION
DOM
Your Submission Satisfies Me.
I Love You My Adorable Obedient Baby Girl.
SUB
im all under ur mercy...
without you everything is meaningless...
SADISM-MASOCHISM
SADIST
Seeing you in puppy eyes satisfies me!
I wanna mark you with bruises!
MASOCHIST
crying for getting your attention
make me red.
MISOGYNY
ANDREW TATE
You want a man that's stronger, taller, more ambitious, makes more money than you?
women: yeah
What if I called you a dumb bitch that's broke? How would that make you feel?
So why is that when a man that wants a woman that's young, attractive and fertile, called insecure and weird, and other shame words.
women: well you are talking about physicality.
I'm just using your logic back against you.
See how, what a man wants is demonized, versus what girls/women want is not demonized.
No guy is insulting women for wanting a man more tall, more strong, more ambitious, makes more money is more successful.
Men understand this and accept it, that's why men go on to the world and work and become better version of themselves.
Women don't accept it, they think they should be taken however they come.
Women need to self-improve just like men do. Just like they have the hubris to think that they're perfect the way they come.
MIND GAMES
DON'T YOU EVER FORGET, HOW THEY GAVE YOU DISTANCE, WHEN YOU NEEDED LOVE.
A Woman Says: Women Have Very Dark Manipulation Tactics That They Use to Control Men. Its Always Painted That the Men Are So Deceptive, Lying and Manipulative, Not Care About Who They Hurt Along the Way, but Women Are Masters of Psychology and Alot of Them Use These Following Tactics.
1. Withdrawl : Women Know How to Have You Worry, Blaming Yourself, Etc. All While They Are All Smiles Watching You Wonder What the Hell You Even Did Wrong. Guys Have Almost Been Programmed to Believe That if Their Lady is Keeping to Herself Then Something Must Be Wrong. Your Brain Automatically Goes Into Panic Mode and You Start Thinking if You Missed Her Birthday or Anniversary or if Its Something Else That You Forgot or Something That You Did Wrong. Now the Next Thing You Know, You're Trying to Makevup for Something That You Didn't Even Do to Begin With. Women Do This to Try to Keep You on Your Toes. It's a Way to Make Sure That You Dont Get Too Comfortable and Start Taking Her for Granted. Its a Scare Tactic to Have You Constantly Thinking About Her and Start Panicking Because You Feel That You Might Be Losing Her.
INSECURITY & JEALOUSY
CARING VS NOT GIVING FUCKS
THEY ARE NOT CONFIDENT GETTING MAD AT UR GF ON BEING CONFIDENT AND POSTING ON IG.
IF THEY ARE CONFIDENT THEY SHOULD FEEL SECURE.
ITS ACTUALLY THE OPPOSITE. BECAUSE IF A MAN IS CONFIDENT IN HIMSELF, HE WILL BE ABLE TO WALK AWAY FROM YOU. AND NOT TOLERATE A CERTAIN BEHAVIOUR THAT HE DISLIKES. And if a man is comfortable in walking away from a woman, then it indicates that he is very secure in himself. WHICH MEANS HE IS SECURE IN HIMSELF.
YOU ARE ARGUING THAT HIM TOLERATING YOU, PUTTING SEXY PICTURES OF YOURSELF ON THE PUBLIC INTERNET, MAKES HIM SECURE OR HIM NOT WANTING TO SEE THOSE PICTURES MAKES HIM INSECURE, HE IS INSECURE BY NOT LETTING YOU DO THAT."WELL A MAN IS NOT GONNA TELL ME WHAT TO DO AND WHAT I CAN OR CAN NOT DO." IF ANYTHING HE IS VERY SECURE IF HE WALKS AWAY FROM YOU AND LEAVES.
SIMPING
Being NICE and a Gentleman is not simping. Being a gentleman is very very important.
Simping is Voluntarily Choosing And Happily Accepting an UNFAIR EXCHANGE OF VALUE.
Giving a woman a bunch of free money. Giving a woman a bunch of Instagram likes and comments praising her with nothing in return.
IT IS SIMPING IF SHE IS NOT DOING IT BACK OR PROVIDING AN EQUAL VALUE OR RESPECT OR ADMIRATION OR APPRECIATION TO YOU.
Don't be some guy just waiting at the entrance of some restaurant for any woman to walk past and holding the door open in the hope of getting her validation or phone number. That is simping, don't be a Simp!
IDEAL MAN
DOES THE RIGHT THING
FIRM HANDSHAKE
ON TIME
DOES NOT LIE TO ANYBODY
DOES WHAT HE'S SUPPOSED TO DO
HONEST WITH GOOD HEART
GENUINE & POLITE TO EVERYONE
Does The Simple Things Right!
MONOGAMOUS COMMITED RELATIONSHIP
Every Man Needs VALIDATION
Every Woman Needs ACCEPTANCE
CLEARLY KNOWING YOUR NEEDS / WANTS / DESIRES / FANTASIES IS VERY IMPORTANT.
AND IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO BE VOCAL ABOUT THEM TO YOUR PARTNER.
WRITE DOWN YOUR NEEDS / WANTS / DESIRES / FANTASIES ON A PIECE OF PAPER AND GIVE IT TO YOUR PARTNER.
NOT CLEARLY KNOWING THEM WOULD ONLY CAUSE TROUBLES BECAUSE YOU WILL EXPECT THINGS OR CRAVE THINGS SUBCONSCIOUSLY AND WILL GET HURT WHEN YOU DONT GET WHAT YOU NEED AND WANT.
MARRIAGE ADVICE
PARA
HEALTHY COMMUNICATION
PARA
PARENTING
PARA
ISSUES
YOUR ACTIONS COMPLETELY CHANGED HOW SHE SEES YOU.
COMPLETELY SHATTERING HER IMAGE OF YOU.
YOU FIX IT BY CHANGING YOURSELF, AND PROVING IT TO HER, SHOWCASING THE CHANGE THROUGH YOUR ACTIONS AND WORDS.
IN HER EYES, YOU ARE A BAD GUY NOW. NOT A GOOD BAD GUY, A BAD BAD GUY.
WHAT MADE HER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU?
HOW DID YOU TWO FALL IN LOVE?
I SAVED HER LIFE, I HELPED HER IN HER TOUGH TIMES.
I SHOWED HER SOME COOL DANCE MOVES, I DANCED FOR HER TO MAKE HER SMILE.
I TOLD HER STORIES, I TALKED TO HER.
WE LAUGHED ALOT. I MADE HER LAUGH.
...AND HOW LONG IS IT SINCE YOU TOLD HER STORIES, WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU TOLD HER STORIES?
WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU MADE HER LAUGH?
HOW LONG SINCE YOU DANCED FOR HER? WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU DANCED FOR HER?